Comments on: What should I do about flirty neighbor that flashes me while gardening?

By: Lick'em Up Front

Lick'em Up Front — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 03:54:59 +0000

When she bends over, take a good look. Commit sight deep in memory bank. Then turn around, bend over and show her your plumber's crack. Most men's hairy cracks turn off women anyways. Be careful though, as she may drop a quarter in and try to fetch it.
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By: Haddock

Haddock — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 03:30:59 +0000

chuck one up her
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By: momof3inok

momof3inok — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 02:51:59 +0000

You need to talk with your wife and ask her to help put a stop to it. Have her show up in the yard while the neighbor is there with you. If she, as your wife, looks her up and down with an obviously disapproving look and makes some comment, for instance, "honey, my man is taken, save it for your hubby" and then turns her back to her to help you, she should get it. If you try to say something, its gonna be obvious that to her that she is getting to you and that is just what she wants.
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By: 400lbtwins

400lbtwins — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 02:10:59 +0000

If it bothers have your wife work the garden with you and see if she still flashes you, if you like it and it sounds like you do, ask her what her intensions are.
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By: Flower

Flower — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 01:26:59 +0000

Well you’re a little unclear about a couple things. By ‘having an effect,’ you mean you are starting to find it arousing? And when you say ‘how do I handle?’ does that mean that you wish to persue this? From the tone of your question, I’m assuming you are finding this uncomfortable and want it to stop. In that case I would suggest a two-part solution. Have a conversation with her at some point and mention your partneer about 20 times. After that, make it a point to leave if she comes around when ur outside gardening and starts putting on her show. Make it obvious but don’t be a jerk about it. She’ll get the message.
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By: Willy B

Willy B — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 01:20:59 +0000

You could always sell me your home… *LOL*

Enjoy the view. If you MUST endulge your carnal desires elsewhere other than home… go further afield than your garden neighbour.

Just my two cents.
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By: ramall1to

ramall1to — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 01:10:59 +0000

One thing you can do is look the other way and not pay any attention to it. If you don't look, she will get the message sometime. If that is not something you can do easily, talk to her and let her know that you really don't want her coming over if she is going to do that or have your wife talk with her and let her know to either stop or she is not welcome.
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By: xtiantimman

xtiantimman — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 01:01:59 +0000

The bible says, if someone has offended you, we are to go to that person in private and confront them. We should give them the chance to set it right for their self. And when that does not work, we are to confront them with others (your wife).
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By: SaraSue

SaraSue — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 00:45:59 +0000

First of all, I respect that you want to respect her, and respect yourself by not oogling her.
I would very sternly ask her to stop coming over. Or make it clear that if she would like to visit you that she needs to dress more modestly. That you are not wanting or desiring a "show". This will probably embarrass her enough to make her stop.
If you have a reason (i.e. faith, marriage, recovering sex addict) than be honest with her. Let her know that she is making herself into an emotional problem in your life by her dress and behaviour.
I’m sure she will try to be more helpful if you are honest.
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By: luminous

luminous — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 23:58:59 +0000

you are human and I do not blame you –however; these types of whores exist everywhere and that is the master manipulator a woman uses –the next being tears–if you are married and she is married don’t touch her with a ten foot pole–my husband was a good looking very engaging person and fell prey to these types and they got him on drugs –which he wanted to try–he’s lying in the back bedroom as we communicate suffering from a stroke from the drugs–not trying to preach but this is one subject that gets my dander up big time
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